One day, I was at school and this one girl told me straight out she had a crush on a guy. I don't even know that girl very well. I wonder if she ever thinks she's making a bad decision by telling all her friends she has a crush on a guy.
Everyone has secrets. But there's a problem.
You know those stories about a backstabbing best friend? Where the friend tells her best friend a secret and makes her promise not to tell anyone? But later she does? Those kind of things actually happen. Luckily, not to me. However...
...what I'm going to say next is gonna make some people angry, but I believe it's true: You don't have to tell your friends anything!
Imagine if your secret was told to a gossip, to an enemy, to someone you don't trust. If your friend just happens to let your secret slip to that kind of person, think of the major disaster that happens.
Too many problems happen just because you shared a secret with a friend. There's too many people out there that do the wrong things on purpose, and the last thing you want to do is get involved with those people.
I'm not sure if I really have a solid point here, because right now I'm almost angry that people expect others to do the right thing and zip their lips when they made the mistake to tell a secret. I know some people believe that you have to trust someone for them to trust you, but really?
I thought this was going to be a happy post that nicely tells you that telling secrets is dumb, but I guess not. Farewell for now.
Everyone has secrets. But there's a problem.
You know those stories about a backstabbing best friend? Where the friend tells her best friend a secret and makes her promise not to tell anyone? But later she does? Those kind of things actually happen. Luckily, not to me. However...
...what I'm going to say next is gonna make some people angry, but I believe it's true: You don't have to tell your friends anything!
Imagine if your secret was told to a gossip, to an enemy, to someone you don't trust. If your friend just happens to let your secret slip to that kind of person, think of the major disaster that happens.
Too many problems happen just because you shared a secret with a friend. There's too many people out there that do the wrong things on purpose, and the last thing you want to do is get involved with those people.
I'm not sure if I really have a solid point here, because right now I'm almost angry that people expect others to do the right thing and zip their lips when they made the mistake to tell a secret. I know some people believe that you have to trust someone for them to trust you, but really?
I thought this was going to be a happy post that nicely tells you that telling secrets is dumb, but I guess not. Farewell for now.